Getting organized at the holidays, which was an oxymoron for me until last month.

You know the drill – go to the mail box, squeal with delight that Real Simple & Southern Living have finally arrived that month, run inside & pour over each issue until it’s read front-to-back.  Then go back & dog-ear every inspiring photo, rip out every yummy recipe, slap it on your fridge or fold it in your recipe book & promise you’ll find it later.

You know, three years later when you still haven’t made it.

I’ve had this issue for years when it comes to my home.  & then Pinterest was born but honestly?  I still rip recipes from magazines.  I have old recipe cards handed down from The Momma or her friends & little ideas sketched of parenting tips.  Or takeout menus & where on earth do I put the manual for the microwave?

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Where I talk about picking battles again.

photo1 Where I talk about picking battles again.

Let’s get one thing straight – character clothing is tacky.   Do not even try to spar with me on this topic, because I could eat a bowl of alphabet soup & shit a better arguement.

Starting at the age where I thought that maybe, one day, I possibly might have children, I swore my child would never wear character clothing.  Sure, I had intense feelings as a non-mother on cosleeping, breastfeeding, raising your child among wolves, & all the other mommy war topics that get panties in a bunch.  But they all paled in comparison to my hatred of character clothing.

Tacky!  I judged the little girl in Target, wearing a Dora sweatshirt.
Vomit in my mouth! I sniffed at the momma buying her son Thomas the Train bedding.
The hell is that?!  I sneered at the brown rusting tow truck imprinted on cereal boxes.

Dare I mention that I had these thoughts not two weeks ago?

Then I met that rusted old tow truck.  His name is Mater & he’s a star in the movie Cars.  What’s that?  You’ve never seen Cars?  Then I assume you don’t have a boy between the ages of 18 months & 10 years.   Because if you do have a boy who’s voice has yet to drop, you can probably recite the entire movie & your husband probably finishes sex with “CAA-CHOW!” & a wink.

This weekend, we strolled into Khol’s to find the kid a pair of fall sneakers, as his little toes smoosh against the end of his Converse.  I perused through the boxes, searching for size 8′s, & Harrison growls out a car sound.  I followed his pointed finger…& my stomach dropped.  Oh, God.  Lightening McQueen.  I smiled, put the kid on the bech to try on respectable Nikes & New Balance shoes.  I stepped back, proud for the simple grey shoes & within moments, I lost my battle.  One look into those big blue eyes, staring past me to the Lightening McQueen sneakers on the shelf & I caved.

“Okay, buddy,” I sighed, kissing years of resolve goodbye.

To anyone else, these shoes may be a symbol of weak parenting pushovers or a complete lack of taste.  To me?  They’re just one more moment where I’m putting my kid before what I want & learning to be happier for it.  You see ugly shoes, but I see little eyes light up every morning.

Kind of like the red flashing lights on the soles of said shoes.  sigh.

Discount code to Cloth Diaper U.

CDUButton1 Discount code to Cloth Diaper U.

’tis with heavy (but blessed!) hearts that the gals of Cloth Diaper U close their doors.  As a farewell, they are offering 20% off their entire stock (with the exception of Artsy Fartsy Foo Foo), plus $5 flat shipping on any order over $100.

My favorites are there, from BumGenius to Planet Wise to Lil’ Joeys by Rumparooz.

Code is “heirtoblair” for 20% off until supplies end.

Might as well admit it, you’re addicted to fluff.

About a year ago, I took the dive into crunchdom & purchased my first few cloth diapers to put on Harrison’s wee bum.  After too many nights of changing sheets & jammies because curses! Pampers failed me again! I decided to bite the bullet & try cloth.  Cloth diapering can seem so GRANDMA & so OVERWHELMING, which are two things that are not usually in the same sentence together, unless you’re talking about that overwhelming grandma smell that pervades retirement communities.

But I promise you, these ain’t your grandma’s cloth diapers.

I’m not a cloth diapering guru or genius, but I know enough to give hope that even the flakiest of us mommas can do it.   Consider this Cloth Diapering 101 for Dummies by a Dummy.

Disposable Diaper Routine:

  1. Take off diaper.
  2. Shake poop into toilet & flush.  (unless you’re a lazy, horrible, depraved person like me who throws away poop.)
  3. Put diaper in pail.
  4. Put fresh diaper on baby.

Cloth Diaper Routine:

  1. Take off diaper.
  2. Shake poop into toilet & flush.
  3. Put diaper in pail. 
  4. Put fresh diaper on baby.

See?  Just like a disposable.  The ONLY difference is that instead of taking out the trash every few days, I toss in a load of laundry & then re-stuff them.

Anatomy of a cloth diaper:

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In short?  Cloth sewn.   Poop go there.  Cloth hold poop good.

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(p.s. look at wee tiny harry in blue fluff!)


What diapers do I use?

I had NO CLUE where to start but thankfully, my good friends, trusty Twitter pals, & a local baby boutique knew where to guide me.

I chose to start with pocket diapers (like Rumparooz & BumGenuis & Applecheeks), since wetness was our main issue.  I could stuff the pockets with 2-3 inserts for extra absorbency & even pull out the big guns, like a hemp insert.  Good-to-know trivia:  hemp absorbs more.

I snagged a few all-in-ones (AIO) by BumGenius & loved them for daytime (but not for a 12-hour run at night) because they’re a slimmer fit under pants.

Then I moved into hybrid diapers (like gDiapers) where I could put in a cloth insert when we were home, but use a disposable insert for the road.  If it’s just pee, you can simply dump the insert, wipe the liner clean, & pop in a new one instead of using an entirely different diaper, which is why I love these for errands because I simply bring inserts rather than several diapers, but they’re definitely not sleeping diapers in our house.

Then I got brave last summer & went into swim diapers (we use the Swimmis brand) & pretty much fell in love with not buying those disintegrating Huggies diapers.  Beach goers, the reusable swim diapers also don’t seem to trap sand like the disposables, which is so nice.  If you’ve ever changed a sand + poop diaper, you know what I’m talking about.  NASTY TOWN.

I got a little braver & moved into fitted diapers, which are so fantastically soft that I kind of want to put them on my bum.  Super-absorbent but require a cover (like Thirsties).  So far, I have only used these for the super-absorbency we need at night since they can be bulky under clothing.

While I have yet to do pre-folds + covers on my kiddo, I have changed a few on a special set of triplets!

How I wash cloth diapers:

  1. One cold rinse without detergent.
  2. Add detergent, wash on hot with a pre-soak.
  3. Extra rinse.
  4. Line dry in the sun when I have time (it helps remove stains & funk!) or just toss in the dryer.
*there are a ton of different ideas/ways to wash, but this is how we do it & it’s worked perfectly with no funk.

The basics of what you need:

  • A willing spouse.
  • Diapers. (duh)
  • Cloth-diaper friendly detergent, like Charlie’s Soap or Rockin’ Green.
  • A place for dirty diapers.  (we use a Planet Wise wet bag that hangs on his closet door & a smaller Planet Wise wet bag for the diaper bag.)
Want more accessories?
  • Sprayer attached to your toilet to remove poop.  (I don’t have one, I just dunk it in the toilet or use toilet paper to scrape it off)
  • cloth wipes.  (we don’t use ‘em)
  • liners.  (good for easy dumping of poop & protecting diapers from diaper rash cream)
  • smell-good stuff for your diaper pail or wet bag.  (I swear by the Rockin’ Green Shake it Up! freshener.)
  • ummm….& pretty much anything else you could possibly imagine.

The brands we own:
FuzziBunz
BumGenius
Rumparooz
Applecheeks
gDiaper
Happy Heiny’s
Swimmis
Monkey Snuggles
Thirsties
Charlie Banana
BumEssentials
Babykicks
Go Green Diapers
Bitti Tutto

(I highlighted our favorites as green!)

So…how much are these shit-catchers gonna run me?

We’ve been lucky & done it on the cheap by slooooowly building stash.  As in, I enter every. single. diaper giveaway known to man & have thankfully won a few.  I refuse to buy a diaper unless I have a code to get a free one on Diaper Shops (go ahead & subscribe to their newsletter so you’ll get these codes!).  I bought my gDiapers with a 20% off coupon from Babies R Us.

What I paid:  $237.66 for 23 diapers
What they retail:  $472.43

The moral of my story?  If you’re patient & keep your eye on deals, you can do well.  Consider it prep for your audition on Extreme Couponing, minus the coupons & need to store 40 bottles of Heinz ketchup.

Here’s the wonderful thing about mothering & cloth diapering – you can do it your own way.  Full-on, part-time, or HELL NO I’M NOT DOING THAT.  I have girlfriends that even travel with cloth, God bless them.   I have gals that cloth full-time except on the road.  I have parents that are still confused by my desire to cloth diaper but will happily swaddle his bum when they babysit.  & then part-timers that cloth diaper at night & on weekends, but buy boxes of Pampers for daycare’s request.  My friends that gag every time I mention cloth diapering?  Still love ‘em.

*coming soon because this post is getting too long:  where we stand right now with diapering Harry’s bum, plus an AppleCheeks giveaway so one of you can try fluff!

Petunia Pickle Bottom!

This giveaway is now CLOSED.  The winner, Shannon, has been contacted!  Thank y’all for entering!

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A few years ago when procreating felt like a distant dream, my girlfriends & I wandered through TJ Maxx, scouring for deals.  Since the thought of babies was pretty much eating my brains whole, I stole through the baby section & stumbled across this bad boy on the left:

 PPBbags Petunia Pickle Bottom!

A Petunia Pickle Bottom Boxy Backpack for $50.  These bad boys traditionally sell for over $150, so at a third of the price, I could not leave it there all lonesome in a dingy store.  My husband may or may not have looked at me like I had gone off my rocker when I came home with it that night.

I lovingly carried it for the first 18 months of Harrison’s life.  I may be petty & shallow, but those first few months where I was kind of unshowered & homeless looking?  At least I had one hell of a diaper bag.  Running errands?  Sling it across your front.  In church?  A shoulder bag.  At the park?  Backpack time.

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(please notice Harry bringing me Playdough & saying, “momma?,” his favorite thing to do on the back porch)

Dirty diaper?  Unzip the changing pad & you’ll find everything at arms reach.  Need your keys?  Hooked right in.  Extra bottles?  Upright inside & easily accessible on the outside.

Plus, my Petunia Pickle Bottom Boxy Backpack holds EVERYTHING.  Wallet, cell phone, blanket, extra outfit, toys.  I am still amazed at how much I can fit in so that I only have to carry one bag.

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A few months ago,  I sent an email to Petunia Pickle Bottom that went something like this:

“ZOMG!  LOVE YOUR BAGS!  ME + PPB = TRUE LUV!”

I even dotted my i’s with hearts.

Petunia Pickle Bottom graciously thanked me by sending a fresh Boxy Backpack, which was perfect timing because I left a banana in the side pocket of my first brocade-style Boxy Backpack & while it washed well, it did leave a stain.  This time they sent me a glazed bag, which wipes clean with a baby wipe or rag. (the brocade is pretty & soft, but definitely go for the glazed!)

Meaning no nasty banana stains.

I’m a pretty momma again!

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Petunia Pickle Bottom is generously offering a Boxy Backpack in Lively La Paz, retailing at $176.00! You have three ways to enter – do one, do them all, it’s totally up to you.

1)  Head on over to Petunia Pickle Bottom & let me know in a comment on here what you adore – style, fabric, bedding, freakin’ Ergo carriers…

2)  Follow me on Twitter & tweet “Win a Petunia Pickle Bottom Boxy Backpack from @HeirtoBlair & @FollowPetunia! http://wp.me/pRSLA-1E3

3)  Follow Petunia Pickle Bottom on Facebook.

Winner will be announced on August 2, 2011.   Best of luck!

ftc stuff:  I purchased my first Petunia Pickle Bottom Boxy Backpack with my own money & then was graciously sent a bag at no cost to me by Petunia Pickle Bottom.  No cash money or illicit favors were exchanged for my glowing opinion, though.

Stealing is for losers. Copyright 2011 Beth Anne Ballance